I very much appreciate your help. I am using a Creator scantool that is BMW specific, inexpensive, but pretty much does what I need it to do. It reads all the modules and provides realtime data for many parameters and can even graph some of them. The EME module has the 222A0C code which when I attempt to clear reads "fault erased", but is still there when the module is immediately read again. There are various parameters of the EME I can read in real time, but I have no idea on what I'm lookin at means, but I may be able to compare the readouts to the data you provided to see if anything differs. Perhaps that could give me some insight. As I sure you have guessed, I am very much hoping that the fault is a nothingburger and can be ignored - though it could affect a resale, if it ever came to that.
The only other issue I have noticed is that I get an EME fault code: "AC charging: Network voltage exists in spite of charging unreadiness" after every full L2 charging session at home. That one readily clears and does not return until the next charging session. I don't believe this is contributing, since the code lookup suggests this is due to the charger, and I am using an inexpensive portable aftermarket charger. I can't be sure though. I will see if this returns on a L1 charge from the BMW charger. I only recently tried a L3 DC charge for the first time to ensure that the car would take it, and all went well.
The real pisser here is BMW, which I really expected more from. To their credit, my local dealer agreed to a no cost diagnostic (and gave me a loaner) when I called them with the issue. They quickly verified the EME was faulty, gave me the $16k estimate, and said there was no warranty coverage (curiously, the service adviser took the car in the belief it was potentially warrantable). They did not provide any additional info and could not answer the questions I noted in my post above. Likewise, for the BMW "genius team". In my frustration, I got the service manager involved, who promised to consult with the tech to get me answers in a couple of days, but warned that the best I should expect is an opinion. A week later with no response, and no reply to my message, I emailed the GM for assistance and I finally got a call from the service manager who said he was going to meet with a visiting BMW engineer the next day, would pose the questions to him, and call me the following day. Two more days have since passed and no call. I'll continue to press, but I'm losing faith that anything helpful will be forthcoming from the effort. Quite disappointing. They're perfectly happy to take a fair chunk of my life savings (or have me scrap) a perfectly operating car, without the ability (or willingness) to explain why I should do either. ...and don't get me started on the warranty denial. Sorry for the rant, but I just needed to vent a bit. I have now gotten it all out, so please don't let it dissuade you from chiming in.