I use mine as (I feel) intended...running around town, and trips within the battery range. I've not used it for a trip where a recharge was required to get back home. Yes, I could, but I haven't. I use my ICE for those trips. There is a high-speed road through town, and the car sees higher than the speed limit of its limited access road, but it definitely starts to draw down the battery, but is fine for the trips I take. My i3 gets used 99% of my driving, and is my daily driver.
I will say that on those trips where I've stressed the battery's SOC, I find that my ICE is more comfortable. The sounds between the two are different, and the i3 has the edge over the ICE (not all ICE are created equal, though!). It's not exactly quiet, but you don't have the typical exhaust/engine drone in the i3. The road surface does make a difference on any tire and car. The i3 has a reasonable amount of sound deadening, but it's not like it's super insulated. Given the battery size, and the mission, you can't drive it for hours on end unless you have the REx (and then, need to stop every hour to refill the tank), so some of those sounds that grate on most people don't seem to intrude as much on the shorter trips.
The i3 is not a general purpose, long-range vehicle, and as long as you don't try to use it as such, it's pretty damn nice!