Most homes have more amperage in breakers than their main one, and that's not a problem. But, one still has to be rational about what your base load is, and the likelihood of not having enough on the main to satisfy your current demand. SOme devices also have a pretty big startup current spike. Run them long enough and eventually, at some point, they will all try to start at the same time...when you get close to the max draw, you could pop your main breaker. Unless you were using a sophisticated fast reading current monitoring device, you'd never know what happened.
Take a modern kitchen...if you read the installation manuals for many of the devices there, they each want their own breaker...so:
- electric stove 30-60A depending on type and number of burners and ovens
- refrigerator 15A on average unless it's a huge built-in
- counter outlets - requires two 20A circuits, or 40A
- dishwasher 15A
- garbage disposal 15A
- lighting circuit 15A
- vent hood 15A
That's 175A at the worst case and it's just one room. Throw in an electric dryer 30A, an electric WH 30A (or more if a high output), central ac (20A or more, more if you have multiple systems), 20A required for a bathroom, and likely more than one.
The point being, 'saving' enough power to go much more than what an i3 requires may take some power management in the home, and trying to recharge a Tesla on an EVSE at full possible rate is a major commitment. Now, throw in your pool pump, and if you're on a well, maybe another 20A (with a good turn-on surge), and maybe you begin to get my point. Most places can accommodate a 40A circuit for an EV. A lot of homes cannot support much more. My sister's home is in great need of a panel upgrade, and has trouble with what's in the house now, let alone trying to put in an EVSE!
Some things in your home run periodically 24-hours (refrigerator, heating/a-c, maybe electric WH if that's what you use). Then, there are a lot of small loads from those things that never turn off (most tvs with a remote and other similar appliances, but those don't add up to much). How often do you have every light in your home on? Maybe more often if you have children, but it all adds up. Then, consider the 80% rule...you should not have a constant load that is more than 80% of the breaker protecting it. Shorter duration power draws are fine. A vehicle's EVSE, though, counts towards that 80%.
People want bigger batteries for longer range...few think about how they are going to get the power to do that, or if they use what they have available, how long it will take! One reason why I think longer range vehicles will tend to be hybrids...it only takes minutes to 'recharge' it with gasoline. Unless Tesla fields their battery swap tech, the fastest you can refill one of those approaches an hour. That puts a big crimp on covering lots of miles in a day since you have to stop where the charging stations are, not when you would like to, pretty much like you can with a gas station. Some people like to drive off of the interstates - often more interesting things to see and do there. Unless it is REALLY popular, you're not going to find a Tesla Superstation around. Lots of luck with long distance on an EV in that situation. A hybrid with a big battery makes a lot more sense...stay EV most of the time, but use the ICE to augment it or take you the rest of the distance without major delays.