I would not have bought my 2017 i3 without the REX. There are no charging options near me above level 2 until I exhaust more than half my 120 mile battery range (summer). My REX gives me 90 to 100 actual highway miles per tank if full. I regularly travel 320 miles (twice a month) and use the REX and carry 2 extra gas cans in the frunk. I can just pull off at the closest rest stop or fast food place and fill up, even if there is not a gas station where I run out of gas. When on either end, I use electric only, but it is not worth making 3 half hour charging stops (only to 80%) on the trip, and DC fast charging is bad for the battery anyway.
I have been looking at the articles about adding an 8 gallon aux tank (racing fuel cell) in the frunk area to allow refueling without stopping. It seems safer than carrying two regular plastic gas cans in the frunk.
Each time I stop to refill the tank, I lose some of the state of charge I told it to hold. The marker for hold SOC starts over when you power up after re-fueling, so if you didn't make it back to 75% SOC, you can't set the marker at 75%. Yes my car is coded for hold state of charge. Losing some SOC each stop is a problem if the hotel has no charging options nearby, and i end up burning some SOC to find a good place to refill.
Sometimes I can use the 110V 10A trickle charger out my hotel room window if I can park near the room. I carry a 100ft heavy duty extension chord. But usually I try to stay as close to 70% SOC during the trip as possible by refilling with gas and holding SOC so I can go to the office without charging the next morning.
Refilling in route without shutting off the car would keep the marker at the original 75% with no loss of setpoint during the trip. If you fall behind, you will catch back up when you run into slower traffic, or go downhill for a while. You fall behind if driving over 70 MPH on level, faster at 80, faster still at 80 uphill. but it will catch up if you just slow down for a while.